Domestic Abuse: Myth vs. Fact
Domestic Abuse: Myth vs. Fact
MYTH: Domestic abuse is only physical.
FACT: Domestic abuse includes coercive control, emotional abuse, psychological manipulation, financial abuse, sexual abuse, harassment, and digital abuse. Coercive control is a criminal offence in the UK and can devastate a victim’s autonomy and wellbeing.
MYTH: If it was really that bad, they’d just leave.
FACT: Leaving an abusive relationship is extremely difficult due to fear, financial dependence, lack of safe housing, isolation, and the risk that violence escalates after separation. Many victims fear for their lives or the safety of their children.
MYTH: It only counts as abuse if they are partners.
FACT: UK law recognises abuse by partners, ex‑partners, family members, and carers. Domestic Abuse Act 2021 defines abuse broadly across personal connections.
MYTH: Domestic abuse is a private matter, people shouldn’t get involved.
FACT: Domestic abuse is a crime. Treating it as private enables abusers and prevents victims from seeking help. Reporting or raising concerns can be life‑saving.
MYTH: Domestic abuse is rare.
FACT: 1 in 4 women and 1 in 6–7 men experience domestic abuse in their lifetime.
